Each day I sit down to write, I’m at a loss for words. I think that’s because we are all feeling a little anxiety. Sure we can put on our masks, & go grocery shopping, or in some places even go to a casino for a bit of fun. Anything to distract ourselves from what is really going on.
Many of us are depressed, angry, and feel like their lives are hanging by a thread. Money is scarce, and they are barely surviving. They feel they are failing their families. Some do not know who they are anymore, their identity has been lost!
I’m not here to tell you it will all be ok, that feels slightly empty. I’m here to make an effort to brighten your day, and maybe give you food for thought. Also, I want all of you to know my intention is not to preach anything, just an attempt to lift you up even if’s in a small way. This will be the last time I bring the virus up. We all know what’s going on, and you don’t need me to remind you again.
I’m an intuitive writer, so what I post is from the heart, and full of love.
I copied this from Facebook.
This is a reminder to me that although everything is different, I still need to have gratitude!
I have been thinking about how I could write a post about the healing that is so desperately needed in our world today. After sitting quietly and meditating, it came to me much more simply than I had imagined.
Josef Siegle is a mentor, and I consider him a friend. I respect him immensely, have taken many of his classes, and always come away better than I started.
Face Book is a go to for me because I can check on my friends and family easily. Sometimes I get information my daughter hasn’t thought to tell me. Or a friend mentions they aren’t feeling well, so I can call them to check on them. It has it’s place! In the process of all this, I have noticed the nasty, hateful comments people post, and I can’t help thinking how much better off our world if we toned it down. When I say toned it down, what I really mean is this…
We all come from different places, we have different colors of skin, different thoughts, ideas, political preferences, and ways we’ve been raised. We come from different places, and different religious beliefs. Because of these differences it is sometimes difficult to understand someone else’s perspective, or point of view. Why do some people talk differently, or louder, or their English seems a little scrambled? Why do some of us wear clothes that show how conservative they are, while some clothes seem louder, or gaudier, blinger, or more colorful? How can we understand one another’s point of view if they are a different religion, or come from an entirely different part of the world?
One thing I’ve learned from traveling, and reading is that people/parents all want the same thing for their families, and children. Most people are peaceful, and loving. We are all working, and struggling to pay for our homes, cars, credit card bills, and anything else that is a necessity at the time.
So what’s the answer?
Well I haven’t answers for the immediate problems, however I will tell you that what came to me during a meditation is this…
If we toned it down, stopped posting, or talking so hateful about the other person, and made an effort to hear their point of view regardless of how different they are than us, shouldn’t that be a starting point to bringing peace and healing to our planet. I don’t think it’s as important to change our views as it is to listen. People want to be recognized, heard and this isn’t happening at the moment.
We are spending so much time pointing out the differences each of us has, and not even giving thought to the similarities we share.
Everyone that knows me knows that I am a liberal. In my eyes, I’m viewed as a left wing democrat that wants to spend money that our country doesn’t have, helping people that don’t deserve it. My view is that the other side, the Republicans don’t want to help the sick, poor, or anyone else they consider doesn’t work for it. Are these perceptions true? Does it matter if they are true or not? Certainly they can’t all be true, but if we just sat down and took time to learn why the other has the ideas, and ideals they have, we would have a much better understanding of one another. I would respect someone for sanely discussing our differences. I’m not trying to change yours, I want to understand your point of view!
The same goes for our racial differences, religious differences and any other difference we have with each other. How can we be so different and so much alike at the same time. We are all created the same, our differences make us interesting, and I for one want to know more.
I’ve never been into religion, more into culture, and languages. I love hearing the music of different cultures, or the way others talk. The cadence in the way others speak, I love it, and I love the way people from another culture dresses, the fabric the use, the way others design, it’s all inspiring to me.
I have posted, along with my words, the meditation for healing the world, bring peace to each of us and those around us. The meditation is 33 minutes long, so I’d suggest you listen to it when your household quiets down. I found it soothing, and it made me feel better about life, and the craziness we are experiencing when I was finished. I hope you feel the same.
Thank you for stopping by and reading Stone Soup. Please listen to the meditation, I know you’ll find it relaxing, and it fills you with love!
The middle of October, Art Beat on Main Street in Vista, Ca. had a reception for our dear friend Maxine Custer. The entire show has been in the making for months, and was spearheaded by another dear friend, LaRetta Small Zamora. It became clear recently that LaRetta needed the help of three of the Fabulous Five Divas to pull it together. That meant that with the exception of Maxine providing her paintings for the show, the remaining four of us needed to share in the pulling it together!
Only part of the food!
After dividing up the catering responsibilities between Karin deBaay, Susan Kopp, LaRetta, and myself it made it much easier on LaRetta, and was actually fun. One person would have gone crazy…ier than they already were, so it worked out perfectly.
Maxine Custer, LaRetta Small Zamora
After placing announcements on Facebook, and group emails, not one of us even had a clue as to how many people might show up. So many invitations went out, that we lost count. But we were ready for a fabulous party!
For those of you who couldn’t make it, you missed a great party, but you still will be able to see the show!
As I look through the Daily Post for Writing 201….
I have come across the following quote.. Somehow it hit home with me, maybe because growing up in our household, art was not an option, or maybe because I’m such a rebel. I don’t even remember bringing art up, it was so not an option! I never had the nerve or inclination to be gay, but as a child, I was a pretty good artist, and quite creative. Somehow that creativity was watered down, and pretty soon I found myself involved with a family, kids, and didn’t even have the time, or energy to look back.
Sadly it took me years to find myself, only to get lost in the teenage revolution. Amazingly, I survived three kids going through their teenage years without many headaches, or meltdowns!
Eventually, freeing myself after the kids left home to find my heart was in my art once again. I’m still finding art, and still looking for myself in the way I paint, and express myself. I think that’s called growing? They say it’s the journey, not the destination, and it’s an interesting journey at that!
“If you want to really hurt your parents, and you don’t have the nerve to be gay, the least you can do is go into the arts. I’m not kidding. The arts are not a way to make a living. They are a very human way of making life more bearable. Practicing an art, no matter how well or badly, is a way to make your soul grow, for heaven’s sake. Sing in the shower. Dance to the radio. Tell stories. Write a poem to a friend, even a lousy poem. Do it as well as you possibly can. You will get an enormous reward. You will have created something.”
A Man Without a Country
This quote was taken from the Daily Post, and written by Kurt Vonnegut
In taking this two-week class I have discovered new ideas, some I have implemented, some were already in place. I’m still learning, and making an effort to create a blog that is interesting, and full of great content. I love to write, but I love painting and creating as well. I’m getting my mojo back, and starting to create more often. It is on my mind constantly now, and each thing I do during the day, or experience I have, my mind goes to how can I relate that to a painting! This is what creating is about, weather we are a writer, a musician, a painter, or wherever our creating process is……
Have a beautiful day full of ideas, and lots of creating!